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<channel><title><![CDATA[HYPNOTIC WELLNESS METHODS - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 00:36:38 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Exploring the Power of Hypnotherapy: Pain management and Emotional Wellness]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/exploring-the-power-of-hypnotherapy-pain-management-and-emotional-wellness]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/exploring-the-power-of-hypnotherapy-pain-management-and-emotional-wellness#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2024 14:40:39 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/exploring-the-power-of-hypnotherapy-pain-management-and-emotional-wellness</guid><description><![CDATA[       In the realm of alternative medicine, hypnotherapy stands out as a fascinating and often misunderstood practice. While its portrayal in movies and media might suggest mind control or mystical powers, hypnotherapy is actually a well-established technique with real-world applications, particularly in the realms of pain management and emotional wellness. In this blog post, we'll delve into the effects of hypnotherapy on pain management and the intriguing correlations it holds with emotional  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/published/pain-managementt.png?1715093401" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">In the realm of alternative medicine, hypnotherapy stands out as a fascinating and often misunderstood practice. While its portrayal in movies and media might suggest mind control or mystical powers, hypnotherapy is actually a well-established technique with real-world applications, particularly in the realms of pain management and emotional wellness. In this blog post, we'll delve into the effects of hypnotherapy on pain management and the intriguing correlations it holds with emotional regulation.<br /><span></span>Understanding HypnotherapyBefore we delve into its effects, let's first understand what hypnotherapy entails. At its core, hypnotherapy is a therapeutic technique that leverages focused attention, guided imagery, and suggestion to induce a state of deep relaxation and heightened suggestibility. Contrary to popular belief, hypnotherapy does not involve losing control or being unconscious; rather, it's a state of heightened focus and receptivity where the mind becomes more open to positive suggestions.<br /><span></span>Harnessing Hypnosis for Pain ManagementOne of the most well-documented applications of hypnotherapy is in pain management. Numerous studies have demonstrated its effectiveness in alleviating both acute and chronic pain, often with results comparable to or even better than traditional pain management techniques.<br /><span></span>How does it work? Hypnotherapy for pain management typically involves inducing a trance-like state in the patient, during which the therapist offers suggestions aimed at reducing the perception of pain. These suggestions can range from visualizing the pain as a manageable sensation to directing the mind's focus away from the discomfort. Additionally, hypnotherapy can help patients develop coping strategies and enhance their sense of control over their pain, empowering them to manage it more effectively.<br /><span></span>The Mind-Body Connection: Emotional Management and PainWhat's particularly intriguing about hypnotherapy is its close connection to emotional management and its potential impact on pain perception. Pain, as experienced by individuals, is not just a physical sensation but is deeply intertwined with emotional and psychological factors. Stress, anxiety, depression, and unresolved emotional trauma can all exacerbate pain perception, making it feel more intense and difficult to manage.<br /><span></span>Hypnotherapy addresses this mind-body connection by not only targeting the physical sensation of pain but also addressing the emotional and psychological aspects that contribute to it. By inducing a state of deep relaxation and heightened suggestibility, hypnotherapy can help individuals access and reframe underlying emotional patterns that may be exacerbating their pain. By promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and fostering a sense of inner calm, hypnotherapy lays the groundwork for more effective pain management and emotional resilience.<br /><span></span>The Holistic Approach to WellnessIn essence, hypnotherapy offers a holistic approach to wellness that acknowledges the intricate interplay between mind, body, and emotions. By harnessing the power of the subconscious mind, hypnotherapy empowers individuals to tap into their innate capacity for healing and self-regulation. Whether used for pain management, stress reduction, or emotional healing, hypnotherapy offers a safe, non-invasive, and empowering pathway to holistic wellness.<br /><span></span>Final ThoughtsIn a world where chronic pain and emotional distress are all too common, exploring alternative approaches to wellness is more important than ever. Hypnotherapy, with its proven efficacy in pain management and its intriguing correlations with emotional regulation, offers a promising avenue for those seeking relief and empowerment. By unlocking the potential of the mind-body connection, hypnotherapy invites us to reimagine our relationship with pain and embrace a more holistic approach to health and wellness.<br /><span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Power of Hypnotherapy: A Guide to Transformative Change]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-power-of-hypnotherapy-a-guide-to-transformative-change]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-power-of-hypnotherapy-a-guide-to-transformative-change#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2024 19:04:40 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-power-of-hypnotherapy-a-guide-to-transformative-change</guid><description><![CDATA[       In today's fast-paced world, finding effective methods for personal growth and transformation is more important than ever. One such method that has gained widespread recognition for its profound impact is hypnotherapy. In this comprehensive guide, we'll delve into the transformative potential of hypnotherapy and how it can help you achieve positive change in your life.Introduction to Hypnotherapy and Its BenefitsHypnotherapy, often misunderstood and surrounded by myths, is a therapeutic t [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/untitled-design-2024-03-20t151122-123_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">In today's fast-paced world, finding effective methods for personal growth and transformation is more important than ever. One such method that has gained widespread recognition for its profound impact is hypnotherapy. In this comprehensive guide, we'll delve into the transformative potential of hypnotherapy and how it can help you achieve positive change in your life.<br /><u><strong>Introduction to Hypnotherapy and Its Benefits</strong></u><br />Hypnotherapy, often misunderstood and surrounded by myths, is a therapeutic technique that leverages the power of suggestion and focused attention to induce a state of heightened suggestibility and relaxation. Contrary to popular belief, hypnosis is not about losing control but rather gaining control over your subconscious mind. Through this relaxed state, individuals can access their inner resources and make positive changes in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.<br /><u><strong>Exploring the Concept of Mindful Hypnotherapy</strong></u><br /><br />Mindful hypnotherapy combines the principles of mindfulness with the therapeutic benefits of hypnosis. By cultivating present-moment awareness and acceptance, mindful hypnotherapy enhances the effectiveness of traditional hypnosis techniques. This approach encourages individuals to observe their thoughts and sensations without judgment, facilitating deeper relaxation and self-discovery during hypnotherapy sessions.<br /><br /><u><strong>How Certified Hypnotherapists Utilize Clinical Hypnotherapy Techniques</strong></u><br /><br />Certified hypnotherapists undergo rigorous training to master clinical hypnotherapy techniques. Drawing from a diverse range of modalities, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), neurolinguistic programming (NLP), and Ericksonian hypnosis, these professionals tailor their approach to meet the unique needs of each client. By combining evidence-based practices with intuitive insight, certified hypnotherapists empower individuals to overcome challenges and achieve their goals.<br /><br /><br /><strong><u>Case Studies of Award-Winning Hypnotherapy Success Stories</u></strong><br />Behind every award-winning hypnotherapy practice are inspiring success stories that showcase the transformative potential of this therapeutic modality. From overcoming debilitating phobias to breaking free from destructive habits, these case studies highlight the real-life impact of hypnotherapy on individuals' lives. Through dedicated sessions and personalized interventions, clients experience profound shifts in mindset and behavior, leading to lasting change and personal growth.<br /><br />&#8203;<br /><strong><u>Discussion on Customized Hypnotherapy Programs for Individual Needs</u></strong><br />Recognizing that one size does not fit all, reputable hypnotherapists offer customized programs tailored to address individual needs and goals. Whether you're seeking relief from anxiety, weight loss support, or assistance with smoking cessation, a personalized hypnotherapy program can provide targeted solutions to help you achieve your desired outcomes. By collaborating closely with clients and adapting techniques to suit their preferences, certified hypnotherapists ensure that each session is a step towards transformative change.<br />In conclusion, hypnotherapy offers a powerful pathway to transformative change by harnessing the innate potential of the mind. Through mindfulness, clinical expertise, and personalized interventions, certified hypnotherapists empower individuals to unlock their full potential and create positive shifts in their lives. If you're ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, consider exploring the transformative power of hypnotherapy today.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[ONE GI-ANT  act of love]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/one-gi-ant-act-of-love]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/one-gi-ant-act-of-love#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2018 13:06:16 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/one-gi-ant-act-of-love</guid><description><![CDATA[       THE ANTOne day, an ant was blissfully exploring in a new place. He had ventured out on his own, and was very excited about what he may encounter. Just then, the ground below began&nbsp;to shake and shift! That's when he noticed the giants all around him! They were circling around him, as the ground continued to move and shake. One giant in particular kept placing one obstacle after another in front of him. No matter where he went, he felt he would never get out of there! He just wanted to [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:5px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:10px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/published/anna-ant-watching.jpg?1528306094" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br /><br />THE ANT<br /><br />One day, an ant was blissfully exploring in a new place. He had ventured out on his own, and was very excited about what he may encounter. Just then, the ground below began&nbsp;to shake and shift! That's when he noticed the giants all around him! They were circling around him, as the ground continued to move and shake. One giant in particular kept placing one obstacle after another in front of him. No matter where he went, he felt he would never get out of there! He just wanted to go back home! Just then, he mustered up all of the courage he had inside. If he was going to get out of there at all, he would HAVE to be brave, and climb over the obstacles presented to him. So he went for it! Just then, he found himself traveling on one of the giants, and kept looking frantically for a way down and around, until all of a sudden, the giant makes one last move, and the ant goes flying high into the air until he finally finds himself in the soft, soft grass surrounded by his family and friends. Boy oh boy would he have a story to tell!<br /><br />THE GIANT<br /><br />One morning, I found my youngest child lying on the ground, watching and highly concerned about something. My boxer, Daisy, was walking around her as well as if to find out what was causing her so much worry. So I asked my daughter what was going on down there? She looked up at me with concern on her face, and said, "I'm trying to keep this poor little ant from getting stepped on. I'm really worried it might get hurt!" She kept moving her hand around the ant, placing a block each way it went in an attempt to get it to go onto her hand so she could take it safely outside, away from all of the dangers indoors, such as getting stepped on by pets or humans. After a while, she finally managed to get it to crawl on her hand, giving it no other choice. Once she was able to take it outside, it wouldn't come off. She kept working to get the ant off of her hand without it being squished, and finally, the ant went flying off of her into the grass outside. "Phew! Now I know it's safe!"<br /><br /><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">A LITTLE PERSPECTIVE<br /><br />&nbsp;Have you put your mind into the perspective of another human being or another creature, and thought about something from their point of view? This ant was going about its business when a huge giant lays itself down, providing obstacles in every way, but what the ant didn't realize was that this giant had a&nbsp;giant heart, and knew if she didn't save him, he would surely be squashed. She so lovingly provided the best safety she could to protect this small and innocent creature, and the ant was never the wiser to this type of love and guidance.<br /><br />How many of you feel as though you've been blocked or completely thrown off course in your lives? What if there is a&nbsp;giant part of you that is looking out for your best interest and safety, but it feels like there are blocks and obstacles? Sometimes it takes a leap of faith and courage, along with trust, so that everything is working for you in a greater way then you had thought or imagined. What if you decided to trust instead? Sometimes it may seem scary, but what if something else, or something greater, is waiting for you, and is being provided out of a greater love you may not even fully understand... yet?<br /><br /><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">Our subconscious&nbsp; minds are designed for purposes like these. It's that giant part of us that so lovingly provides what we need, and will even provide blocks in certain areas (success, money, relationships, fears, confidence, etc...) if it feels your physical or emotional welfare may be at risk. When you think about it, these have been placed so lovingly for your protection.<br />Can a block outstay its purpose? Absolutely! Even though the blocks have been placed there for your protection and/or by limiting beliefs, they can often affect your mental, and spiritual growth. It can even (in some cases) affect someone physically&nbsp;as well when it's really trying to give you a message or get your attention in some way.<br />A great way to&nbsp;begin to remove these blocks and/or create a better understanding of yourself is by contacting a hypnotist or hypnotherapist.<br /><br />Hypnosis/Hypnotherapy-Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy can help a person to get provided answers they're looking for and to have a conversation to the subconscious mind directly to make changes to help you to grow. It is certainly possible to outgrow certain habits and behaviors. Hypnosis allows for a way to have these conversations with the subconscious mind&nbsp;directly through&nbsp;specific techniques and tools helping to relieve any miscommunications in the process. If you feel blocked or feel like you're having trouble moving forward, contact your local hypnotist for some valuable tools and information.<br /><br />If you would like more information please go to <a href="http://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com">www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com</a>.<br /><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Garden of Contentment- Taking Back Control Of Your Life]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-garden-of-contentment]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-garden-of-contentment#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2017 13:54:26 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/the-garden-of-contentment</guid><description><![CDATA[       &nbsp;&nbsp; In the beginning of the summer, my family and I decided to plant a big, and beautiful garden to have lots of vegetables to eat. We were so excited!Yesterday, I was outside, looking at my garden, and immediately felt overwhelmed. Although we had done everything in taking the time to get the ground, the amount of grass, and weeds inside this space was overpowering. We took time and care in getting the soil ready, and planted each seed with loving care. However, now&hellip; I wa [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/published/keukenhof-flower-gardens-199089.jpg?1501595793" alt="Picture" style="width:439;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&nbsp;&nbsp; In the beginning of the summer, my family and I decided to plant a big, and beautiful garden to have lots of vegetables to eat. We were so excited!<br />Yesterday, I was outside, looking at my garden, and immediately felt overwhelmed. Although we had done everything in taking the time to get the ground, the amount of grass, and weeds inside this space was overpowering. We took time and care in getting the soil ready, and planted each seed with loving care. However, now&hellip; I was standing there looking at this garden we had so many high hopes for, and although there were many fruits of our labor, I couldn&rsquo;t see many of them under all of the overgrowth. From what I could see, some of the plants were doing well, and some of them had produced very little, and some had died from neglect.<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp; What happened? What happened was, that we had gotten so busy with other things that we forgot to take care of something that was so important.<br />So I stood there looking at this place, and decided to get to work, working one area at a time. While I was weeding, I started to go into deep thought about life. So often, we plant things for ourselves we have such high hopes for. We get the ground ready, and are excited to see the fruits of our labor-but often begin to feel over whelmed, and frustrated. Why?<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp; Each plant represents our needs as well as what we want for ourselves- our growth.&nbsp; However, we often forget, grow impatient, and even find ourselves too busy to take care of what&rsquo;s important. We get caught up in all of the madness, and unimportant things, that we allow seeds we don&rsquo;t want into this beautiful garden of ours. Weeds come in all shapes, sizes, and they don&rsquo;t take long to grow. Once they&rsquo;ve been planted, they can often overrun, and even choke out the plants you had sewn all together.<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp; This garden represents your life, and it depends on the very care you give it. If you are not making yourself as well as those whom you love a priority, and allow negativity into your life, it doesn&rsquo;t take long for weeds to manifest. This can leave anyone feeling overwhelmed, and frustrated&hellip; even feeling hopeless. But there is hope! The best way to fix this is to roll up your sleeves, and to begin eliminate everything in your life that is hurting you in some way. Pull out everything in your life that is negative, especially those that are choking the life out of you, or anything else really important. It takes special time, and care, but each weed eliminated from your life, is so incredibly satisfying, and leaves you with a greater sense of achievement and gratitude!<br /><br />If you&rsquo;re looking for hope, here are the best ways to get started:<br /><ol><li>EVALUATE YOUR LIFE- start looking at what doesn&rsquo;t fill you up in some way. Take a good look at your life, and think about what it is you need, and want- make it basic at first (self-love, happiness, good health, a happy and healthy family, good supportive friends, etc&hellip; whatever it is for you.</li><li>DIVE RIGHT IN- start weeding out what doesn&rsquo;t bring you peace. This may mean taking a good hard look at what you are doing to fill yourself up. It also means taking a solid look at the areas in your life that are toxic. Most times, the weeds are self-cultivated. That inner voice inside that tells you that you can&rsquo;t do it, that you&rsquo;re not good enough, or anything else that makes you feel bad about yourself. These roots are often the most solid, and deep. The best way to pull these weeds, is with patience, kindness and understanding. You are good enough, you are strong enough, you are smart, and you are worthy. Affirmations are key. Use these regularly, and not only will you begin to uproot those deep harmful roots, but you are nurturing the soil for those important seeds you have planted, Not only this, but you are planting, as well as nurturing new and exciting seeds for your future.<br /></li><li>USE YOUR TOOLS- There are so many tools and resources out there. Use them. Use ALL of what you have. This will only help you.</li><li>ASK FOR HELP- This one is sometimes the hardest one for most people to do. However, one of the best things you can do for yourself, is to ask for help. Find people who have your best interest at heart, and can be most useful. You&rsquo;ll be surprised at how many people will step up for you, and dive in with you, while bringing new tools you hadn&rsquo;t even thought about. These can be professionals, but they can also be your friends and family&hellip; your support system.</li><li>TAKE CARE- You must take care to maintain your garden regularly! Regular self-care, evaluation, and maintenance is key to a healthy, happy, and successful life. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE!<br /></li></ol>As I was contemplating all of this, before I knew it, I was surrounded by my family who had all come out to help in some way. Before we knew it, we were seeing ground again as well as many of the plants we had planted before shining through in all their glory!<br />YOU CAN DO IT!!!<br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Turn Your Child's Fears into Laughter and Smiles]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/turn-your-childs-fears-into-laughter-and-smiles]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/turn-your-childs-fears-into-laughter-and-smiles#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2015 20:56:24 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/turn-your-childs-fears-into-laughter-and-smiles</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						    "There's nothing to fear, but fear itself."- Franklin D. Roosevelt"   					 							 		 	     "There's nothing to fear, but fear itself. "&nbsp; That statement couldn't be more true! Every fear begins with a thought. Most of us have awesome imaginations, but unfortunately, many use their imagination applied to the dreaded task of... worry. A child's imagination is a place where many magical things occur. They play, and create fun [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/144831.jpg?244" alt="Picture" style="width:244;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><br /><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <blockquote style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font size="6"><strong>"There's nothing to fear, but fear itself."<br />- Franklin D. Roosevelt</strong>"</font><br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></blockquote>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); '><span style="color: rgb(213, 213, 213); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(213, 213, 213); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(213, 213, 213); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;">"There's nothing to fear, but fear itself. "&nbsp; That statement couldn't be more true! Every fear begins with a thought. Most of us have awesome imaginations, but unfortunately, many use their imagination applied to the dreaded task of... worry. <br />A child's imagination is a place where many magical things occur. They play, and create fun, and art, but other times, their imagination can take a darker turn, and create something they fear either from the unknown, something they've heard, or something they've seen. In fact many adult phobias begin as something innocent from childhood, and the thought of something terrible happening grows over time. I, personally, am not a fan of clowns, and I can attribute that to several sleepovers as a child where clowns played a role in&nbsp;a scary movie. In fact, if I had to think back, I believe the movies, "It"&nbsp; by Stephen King, and "Poltergeist" were two of the culprits! <br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); '><span style="color: rgb(213, 213, 213); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: rgb(72, 72, 72); font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none;">What parent hasn't been woken up in the middle of the night with a scared little one standing next to them because of a bad dream? Or when they suddenly become afraid of going in a room, or off by themselves? I have three kids with wild imaginations so I know a thing or two about that. They can get so bad sometimes they're almost inconsolable. Whatever it is, that fear is very&nbsp;real to them just as ours&nbsp;is to us no matter how ridiculous&nbsp; it sounds.<br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); ">What to Do:<br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); ">One word...<br />Imagination- Imagination started the fear to begin with, and is the thing that's going to eliminate it as well. Take advantage of a time when they are really afraid of something, and distract them by asking about something they think is pretty cute, about something you know that they love or is really funny. Chances are they might be caught off guard at first, but once you have something to work with, ask them to close their eyes, and describe the thing they find scary, and then you (as the adult) make that scary thing into something else, and use some creative skills to make it less intimidating. You could either make it smaller, or ask them to change color, or the place, or even make up a story to the scenario where this character (or whatever) is simply misunderstood, and really quite sweet. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(213, 213, 213); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); ">One recent example in my own home was when my littlest daughter started being afraid of going anywhere by herself. I had asked her to get something from the upstairs and bring it to me, and she began shivering, and whimpering. In asking her what was wrong, she began to describe a character she had seen briefly on something her (much older) brother had watched that she found to e scary. So I asked her to describe something that made her laugh and began talking about what she loved. <br />"BUNNIES!" she giggled. Then I asked her to think about the scary guy, (she winced), and told her right away to imagine he just popped out some cute little bunny ears! Then, I began telling her to turn him into a cute, pink, fuzzy bunny, and imagine him hopping around instead doing silly little things.<br />With this, she began laughing hysterically, and making up more to the story as it grew into a playful situation. <br />Right after our conversation, she went right upstairs by herself giggling the entire way, as she imagined her once scary little man as a cute and cuddly new friend who was hopping up the steps behind her. That's all it took, and she was fine! <br /><br />So do what you can to be as creative! Using the imagination with your children is a great way to help them with problem solving skills, and in cases where fear is concerned, it can really teach to help coping skills as well. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(72, 72, 72); "></span></span></span></span></span></h2>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[6 Steps to Successful Thinking]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/successful-thinking1]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/successful-thinking1#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2015 16:22:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/blog/successful-thinking1</guid><description><![CDATA[ So,  it's already into the New Year! Many have made resolutions to lose  weight, kick bad habits like smoking, nail biting, procrastination, take  more time for yourself or family, or maybe even to fix the family  finances in some cases. In most cases, we either&nbsp;want to do better, or  be better in some way.Many people by this point have given up or are  thinking about it. If you've done either one, don't worry. You don't  have to make it to the New Year to try again. In fact, why wait at a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:273px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/'><img src="https://www.hypnoticwellnessmethods.com/uploads/2/7/9/0/27903985/2992907.jpeg?257" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#24678d" size="4">So,  it's already into the New Year! Many have made resolutions to lose  weight, kick bad habits like smoking, nail biting, procrastination, take  more time for yourself or family, or maybe even to fix the family  finances in some cases. In most cases, we either&nbsp;want to do better, or  be better in some way.<br />Many people by this point have given up or are  thinking about it. If you've done either one, don't worry. You don't  have to make it to the New Year to try again. In fact, why wait at all? </font><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">Your goals are important no matter what age you are or what's going on in your life, let alone what day it is. <br /><br /></span><span style="">How  does one measure success? Is it in the type of car you drive? Is it the  amount of money you have? Good health? Maybe it's in your relationships  with others?</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><br /><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">What  if I told you that you could be successful in any goal you put forth?  You can! Many of us are taught from many different sources to limit our  thinking. Some of these sources include family, friends, religion,  enemies, teachers, and other people we look up to. Some of the time they  mean well, and other times they do not. Add to that, the little&nbsp; and  not-so-little negative thoughts we tell ourselves in the midst of fear,  seeking approval, and perhaps in the fear of making mistakes, telling  ourselves we will never be good enough or strong enough. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">It's  producing this way of thinking that makes many people so miserable. I  mean, why would you even want to try if you and everyone else is telling  you you'll fail, or never be good enough? I mean, what's the point?  Well, what if I told you the importance of your goals begins with your  thought process? Your work from the inside out is the THE MOST important  part of the process. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">Dreamers  are amazing, and the use of their imagination is amazing! However, a  dreamer is nothing but a dreamer unless he or she applies action to set  it in motion for success. Have you ever wondered how it seems like some  people can make anything happen? It's almost like magic where they want  something, and "Poof!" it appears!&nbsp;<br />Personally, I don't believe in  luck in the way most people do. I do, however, believe that if you allow  your mind and experiences to open up to possibilities, you will begin  to see more of,&nbsp; and know when to accept opportunities, help, and  guidance when they appear.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style="text-decoration: none; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;"><span style="text-decoration: none; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><strong><u><font size="5">How to begin successful thinking: </font></u></strong><br /><br /><em><strong><font size="5"><font color="#515151">1.  <strong><strong>Gratitude</strong>:<span class="rangySelectionBoundary" style="line-height: 0; display: none;" id="selectionBoundary_1421251782997_05781665310242923">&#65279;</span></strong></font> </font></strong></em><span class="rangySelectionBoundary" style="line-height: 0; display: none;" id="selectionBoundary_1421251782998_534356229341695">&#65279;</span>Be grateful for everything you can think of no matter how  small, and blessings will seem to fall from the sky by the truckloads.  This gives you a better attitude, and better outlook on everything in  your life, as well as in others' lives.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#24678d" size="4"><strong><font color="#515151"><em><font size="5">2.  Self Love:</font></em></font></strong> Begin by talking to yourself first the way you want to&nbsp;be  treated, beginning with affirmations. Saying things like, "I really love  myself." and think about the things that make you unique, special,  talented, and/or little things that you like about yourself, and tell  yourself about them. It's OK to think highly of yourself no matter who  has told you not to.&nbsp; It does not make you snobby, or full of yourself,  or conceited to think that you are special. You and others were made  from scratch in a very specific way. Be proud of that! People who begin  to love themselves often feel an outpouring of love and kindness they  can't wait to share with others.</font><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#515151" size="5"><em><strong>3. Choose your thoughts wisely:&nbsp; </strong></em></font>YOUR THOUGHTS MATTER! </span></span></span><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""></span></span></span><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">I   see this all the time in my practice at Hypnotic Wellness Methods  Hypnosis. The first thing clients tell me  is what they don't want in  their lives or behaviors. <br /></span></span></span>Think of your mind as  a computer. You wouldn't go to a computer to type in everything you  don't want it to do. Instead you begin programming it by entering key  words describing what you want. Your mind is no different. If you looked  into a search engine, and entered&nbsp; something you don't want, it would  find that key word right away, and give you everything you asked for,  all of the information, images, etc... The mind does not recognize  negative words like don't. When you tell yourself that you don't want to  be shy (for example), you are not only giving yourself the command to  be shy, but you're bringing it into focus, and blowing it up to gigantic  proportions. </span></span></span><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""></span></span></span></font><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style="">Your  mind's computer begins imagining the situation, which triggers physical  reactions (usually fear, shame, and frustration in most cases). </span></span></span>The  more you focus on this thing you don't want, the more it becomes the  elephant in the room, or worse, you look for new ways to avoid  situations all together.</font><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#515151" size="5"><em><strong>4.  Think Positive Words, and Thoughts:</strong></em></font> Now that you've learned about how  the mind programs itself, begin replacing what you don't want first off  with what it is you do want. Once you've established and pointed out  what it is you really want, begin to program yourself by entering it  into your system with positive words. The example used earlier, was "I  don't want to be shy." Replace it with one word, "Confident." When you  do this, take your mental computer to its search engine where there are  images, words of encouragement, reminders of times in your life where  you were confident in something you did, or in a situation.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><font color="#24678d" size="4"><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#515151"><em><font size="5"><strong>5.   Set Goals and Take Action:</strong></font></em></font> By setting big goals, and outlining small,   achievable goals daily, you will be closer to your goal each day.<br />   Many people give up so easily on their goals because whatever it is, is   so big that it seems completely unachievable. If you and a friend look   at the top of a mountain and say to yourself every day, "I'm going to   climb that mountain over there." Is that goal achievable? It's all   achievable. The difference on whether you or your friend get there   depends on the action taken. If you're standing there every  day looking  at the mountain, and dreaming about getting there, ten years  down the  road, you will probably still be staring at that mountain.  Imagine that  your friend, however (while you were dreaming), was each  day, planning  how, visualizing, and actually taking more and more steps&nbsp;to achieving  their goal. A dreamer can only get so far, but when you take a dreamer   into action, there is nothing they cannot do. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style='text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); '><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><span style=""><font color="#24678d" size="4"><em><font color="#515151" size="5"><strong>6.   Apply Solutional&nbsp; Thinking: </strong></font></em>The unachievable is only there because of   limited thinking. When you begin to apply thoughts of , "What will it   take?" "What do I need?" "What do I need to learn?" in place of words   like never, can't, impossible, you are setting yourself up for success!  Applying solutional thinking to your normal thinking process will not  guarantee there will never be issues or mistakes, but will always help  you to find more and better solutions to help you to move forward. Each  problem carries more than one solution, and there is always a solution.  If you don't believe me, think about this: 4+6=10, but so does 5x2,  11-1, 20 divided by 2 ( I could go on, and on, but hopefully you get the  picture). This will open up a whole new world, with all sorts of  perspectives for you. Tip: If you ever find yourself saying nasty words  like can't, never, impossible, or the dreaded words like "I don't  want..." Teach yourself (like a computer) to cancel it out. Mentally, or  physically say the word, DELETE. You can even imagine yourself pushing a  delete button in your mind's eye, and go back to your solutional  thinking asking yourself, "What will it take?"<br />&nbsp;Seems simple, right?  It may take some adjustment at first, but remember, repeating an action  for 28 days makes it a habit, and I promise it will be worth it!</font><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="text-decoration:none; font-style:normal; font-weight:400; color:rgb(142, 142, 142); "></span></span></span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>